7/15/2009

Hatred towards our own?

No the tittle is not directed towards anyone and no theres not an extravagant story about a wild fight your going to have to look somewhere else for that. I chose to tittle it this because I just read the article Kierno Mayo wrote for the August 09 issue of essence[Idris Elba on the cover!]. Her articles about the hatred black females have towards each other why we put down, ridicule one another. The articles usually are things I can relate to but never fully seeing how there mostly for a somewhat older audience. Yet this one I think applys to ALL AGES. Iv noticed it everywhere myspace, bustops, twitter, facebook you name it. Theres always the I hate females line or females all act like messy bitches. Sitting at a bus stop females will give me sideways glances or laugh and snicker to get attention, dirty looks, muggin and the whole nine. WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? Why duz everyone feel the need now to be hardcore despite having maybe a bad experience with one female or another duz NOT mean every single person is the same. I don't understand how everyone or I should say most got to this perception on females. It makes no sense to me Iv had plenty of girls give me shit, my share of gossip gone wrong, rumors the typical high school stuff. All of that and more and still cant say that I hate all females for myself I give fair chance to everyone. I don't dislike hanging with girls or simply thing every female has some ulterior motive. I sometimes wonder will going to a all black school be something disliking because most females are going to be mean or have attitude[ 4 no reason]. Will everyone size each other up, do we have to have the same old juvenile ass childish fights. Hopefully there are others who into meeting new people and breaking outta crap like that.

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